Decentering Romantic Love as a Divine Feminine Woman: 7 Ways to Stop Chasing Love.
Chasing romantic love is not for the Divine Feminine. Why would she chase love when she has access to an infinite flow of love that runs through her? When women chase love, they give away their power. When women chase love, they become depleted by wasting their precious energy on half-hearted connections. With the influence of patriarchal ways, the Divine Feminine has been suppressed. Women are not honoured and treated with devotion. Women have been programmed to chase and earn love by making us forget how powerful we are and how loved we already are by the Divine.
Every woman who has been male centered, seeking external validation from men needs to experience a season of decentering romantic love. When a woman decenters romantic love, magic happens. She starts to glow because all of her energy and efforts go into herself. She starts to attract more abundance because she is no longer in the ‘chaser’ energy. When a woman takes a step back from chasing romantic love, she starts to attract her highest timelines. She becomes a magnet for everything she ever dreams of.
Decentering romantic love as a divine feminine woman is one of the most beautiful journeys a woman can take. Here are 7 ways a woman can follow to stop chasing love and to start pouring love and energy into herself.
How does a divine woman decenter romantic love?
♡ She meditates on the love of the Divine.
The reason we chase love is that we are disconnected from divine love. We focus on the absence of love in the external life without unlocking the infinite reservoir of divine love that we have access to. Instead of remembering and grounding ourselves in the energy of unconditional love that the Divine has for us, we chase crumbs of love in half-hearted connections.
A divine feminine woman knows that to unlock the purest love externally, she must unlock it internally first. She knows that to experience the highest love story with a man, she must experience the highest love story with the Divine.
So, instead of chasing romantic love, she meditates on this love for a few minutes every day. She allows herself to feel loved by the Divine, and she reminds herself of this all day, every day with a mantra, “I am so loved and adored”.
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♡ She calls her energy back.
If we have been chasing love for a while and have been in relationships or situationships, especially karmic connections, we leave our energy in those connections and memories. Most of the time, we feel fragmented and confused about love because we still keep energizing those soul ties. When we think about these connections, check their social media pages, or when we talk about these connections with friends, we keep our energy scattered.
A divine feminine woman knows that her energy is precious and all of it belongs to her. She knows that old connections must be let go of, so she has more space to cultivate a stronger relationship with herself and the Divine, and eventually the highest love of her life.
So she calls her energy back every night before bed with a mantra, “I call all of my energy back to me”. She sets an intention that all soul ties are dissolved and chooses every day not to entertain thoughts about past connections and not to check any social media pages.
How does a divine woman decenter romantic love?
♡ She embodies her goddess energy.
We chase love when we forget who we are. We forget how beautiful and magnetic we are. We forget how divine and goddess-like we are. So, we romanticize struggle in love. We assume that it’s something to chase instead of something that is ours by divine right.
A divine feminine woman knows that she is a reflection of the Divine Mother. She knows that she is a portal between heaven and Earth. She knows that she is already whole and divine regardless of a lover by her side.
She knows that her pure heart and her beautiful energy are worthy of the highest love. So, she starts to appreciate who she is first. She starts to honour herself. She starts to love herself devotionally.
She writes the sweetest love letters to herself, she braids prayers of beauty into her hair, and she walks through the world like a daughter of Goddess Venus.
Not only that, she creates sacred boundaries to protect her precious energy, she learns to say “no” to anything that takes her away from her divine timeline, and she allows only the most pure, divine platonic connections into her life.
♡ She resurrects her inner Aphrodite.
She redirects the energy she used to spend longing for a relationship into making her daily life rich, sensual, and deeply fulfilling. She pays attention to beauty. She slows down and lets herself enjoy food, music, nature, and her body. Her body becomes a temple. Her routines are no longer woven around chasing external validation.
Instead of chasing romantic love, she creates a deeper connection with the cosmos, focuses on activating her sacral chakra and channels her sexual energy into creativity. She engages in dance, hip openers and moves her body in sensual, goddess-like ways and listens to music that reminds her of cosmic love.
She dresses up and adorns herself with jewellery, hair accessories and channels her energy into beauty rituals, to resurrect her inner Aphrodite.
A divine feminine woman knows that when her life is sensual, vibrant, and full of beauty, she has no reason to chase mediocre connections that can’t meet her there.
How does a divine woman decenter romantic love?
♡ She nurtures her inner child.
A divine feminine woman knows that a break from chasing love is the perfect time to revive the inner child. So, she spends her days releasing her seriousness and embodying her princess energy. She reads books of fairytale stories, watches cozy shows, writes letters to her angels, learns about flowers and does anything else that makes her feel alive.
This is her season of solitude. This is when she has the most freedom. So, she focuses on following her highest excitement every day and allows herself to be taken into the most magical timelines, without focusing on chasing romantic love.
♡ She celebrates all the other loves in her life.
Friendships, art, God, purpose, nature, and her angels. A divine woman lets these loves take up space, nourish her deeply, and remind her that romantic relationships are only one form of love, not the only one.
She pours into her friends and family. She plans dates with her loved ones. She falls in love with divine sisterhood. She talks to her angels and God. She allows herself to be wrapped up in the warmth of the sun. She allows Mother Nature to hold her.
A divine feminine woman deeply appreciates all the other forms of love in her blessed life, because she knows that what she focuses on always grows. This keeps her from chasing romantic love externally.
♡ She surrenders.
A divine woman knows that her desire to experience a higher love is not superficial. She knows that it’s a timeline she has chosen to experience on Earth. She knows that this desire for pure and passionate love is holy. That it comes from the Goddess herself.
She knows that for her sacred union to unfold, she must release all control. Control takes a woman out of her softness. It keeps a woman on guard and in constant analysis of events and signs, making her body feel like there is no time for relaxation. A divine woman knows that the constant tension of “when” and “how” is not good for her soul. She releases her need to rush the process and instead decides to let go and trust the process.
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Final Notes
A divine feminine woman knows that decentering romantic love doesn’t mean that she is giving up on it. She knows that it doesn’t mean that she is closing her heart and agreeing to a life of solitude.
By choosing not to chase love, she creates space to open her heart even more, by focusing on God, her angels and everything in her life that vibrates on the frequency of romance.
A divine feminine woman knows that the most beautiful story can only find her if she releases the programmed need to chase it and focuses on becoming an embodiment of love itself.
‘A Lovergirl’s Guide to Embodying Real Love’ is a guide that contains everything a woman needs to know to take a step back from chasing love and become an embodiment of love itself.
If you are on your lovergirl journey of calling your energy back to yourself and pouring more love into you, how has that been for you so far? Let me know in the comments!